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Malia Mallory Presents Five Tips for the Perfect Romantic Gesture #FridayFive

Young happy couple with rose, outdoorRomantic gestures are things you do to show your partner that you are thinking about him/her and also a way to show affection. The great thing is that a little goes a long way toward keeping that special connection alive. Thoughtful gestures can even stoke the fire into flames.

1. Touch. It’s easy sometimes to let distance come between us. Make a special effort to hold hands while walking. Give a kiss – a real kiss, not just a peck on the cheek, when saying hello or goodbye. Wake up a few minutes early and engage in a nice morning snuggle.

2. Communicate. Tell your partner how you feel and not just in intimate moments. Write down a heartfelt sentiment. Slip it into a place where it is sure to be found. This can be a post-it on the bathroom mirror or a card in a briefcase. How about sending an intimate text or leaving a suggestive voicemail?

3. Do Something Special. A special or unexpected action can be lovely. You know your significant other’s preferences. Make a special trip to the bakery for that well-loved pie. Cook a favorite meal. Indulge in an activity that your partner enjoys, but maybe you don’t. Do a little pampering by giving a massage.

4. Surprise. There’s nothing like the element of surprise to create a spark. Plan a romantic weekend getaway. Present your partner with a thoughtful gift like a cd of a favorite artist or tickets to a show. Have a picnic.

5. Celebrate. Don’t wait for a holiday or a big promotion. Celebrate today. Make plans to meet for lunch during the week. Break out that special bottle of wine. Make a reservation at a nice restaurant.

I think the theme of these tips is not to settle into a rut. Be mindful. Be considerate. Let your partner know how much you appreciate having him or her in your life in small ways every day.

What’s your favorite romantic gesture?


Malia Mallory Talks Sex and Food – Aphrodisiacs and More!

chocolateIt’s common knowledge that food and sex go hand-in-hand, isn’t it? We as humans have appetites for both. Eating for sensual purposes generally fall into one of two categories. The first category is foods that are thought to be aphrodisiacs. In the second category are foods that you might actually incorporate into your sexy time.

Can food be an aphrodisiac? A lovely meal in an enjoyable setting with some inspiring company can certainly put a person in the mood. Just don’t let the meal be too heavy. Here, it is the experience, more than the food itself, which inspires romantic thoughts.

Some foods are rumored to have a more direct effect on the libido. Oysters and chocolate are two foods that top this list. There is evidence that certain nutritional qualities of these foods might have an impact. For instance, oysters contain zinc, which can have an impact on testosterone and sperm production. Chocolate contains compounds that affect the brain in positive ways. In general, it is no secret that a good, healthy diet leads to better overall health. Better health tends to equate with better sex.

Let’s turn to the use of food during sex. Not only does eating chocolate make you feel good, it can be fun. A very soft milk chocolate bar can be used on one’s partner and followed up with a tongue. Chocolate syrup also works, but can be overly sweet and large amounts. I highly recommend whipped cream. The kind in the spray can has the positive quality of being easily aimed and can even be applied in patterns. It is also rather light so an overabundance isn’t usually a problem. Fruit makes a lovely body decoration to be nibbled off and I’m sure you can think of something to do with bananas or carrots…or even cucumbers!Kiwi Light

There are even BDSM aspects to the utilization of food during sex. Figging would fall into this category. This involves the use of the ginger root. Fresh ginger root is peeled and then pared into the desired shape. When inserted, the ginger produces a subtle burning sensation that grows over time. This practice is often accompanied by a spanking or caning.

There is really no limit to how to use food during sex, except the limits of your own imagination.

Have you ever incorporated food into your sex life? What foods arouse you?


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Love’s a Beach Hopping from Blog to Blog – Nook, Books & More!

Welcome to the Life’s a Beach Blog Hop sponsored by!

The grand prize is a Nook!

It just so happens that one of my stories from The ABCs of Erotica takes place on a beach! Stay tuned for the excerpt below!

All commenters on my blog will be entered for a $5 gift card. I’m also having a drawing for a $20 card in my August Fan Drawing. See more details here!

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Excerpt from The ABCs of Erotica – B is for Beach

Erica loved the beach. She especially loved it at night when the moonlight reflected off the water and the sound of crashing waves broke on the shore. There was no one else on the beach but the two of them, and the solitude was lovely.
During the day, the beach was hot, crowded. But now, with the moon and stars it was a place of dreams. She’d fantasized many times about being on the beach with a lover, alone together in the darkness, the water drowning out their cries of ecstasy. She shook her head ruefully. She was getting ahead of herself.
A gust of wind swept up, and Erica shivered a bit. Ben stopped, running his hands over her chilled arms and then leaned forward, pressing his lips against hers. Liquid pleasure filled her and Erica strained closer, bringing her hands to his shoulders. Finally, the moment was here. She’d waited all evening to feel his lips. Again and again, Ben kissed her urgently. He slid his tongue into her mouth, rubbing against the inside of her lower lip while Erica pressed herself fully against him. They embraced for a moment more and then pulled apart and continued down the sand.
Erica moved closer to the edge of the water and a wave broke over her feet, soaking the hem of her long, gauzy skirt. She laughed as the cold, swirling water retreated. Ben grasped her hand, pulling her back toward the dry sand which clung to her feet. They collapsed onto a small, raised dune, and Ben reached down and brushed away the sand. His fingertips brushed lightly over the tops of her feet, sweeping the grains away. She leaned toward Ben and his lips met hers again, kissing ardently. Closer and closer, Erica wrapped her arms around him and he sank back into the sand, taking her with him. She felt her bonds slip away. This man knew her. She could be exactly who she was.


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Do You Like Sex on the Beach? B is for Beach – an Erotic Interlude from Malia Mallory #SixSunday

Hi Readers! It’s time once again for Six Sentence Sunday. For your reading pleasure today, I’m presenting a selection from The ABCs of Erotica – B is for Beach. Details on getting the full story for free are below!


Erica sat back and reached for the bottom of her blouse. She pulled it up over her head and tossed it to the side. Ben reached behind her back, his fingers releasing the hook and eye closure of her bra. His hands slid back around to her chest, underneath the fabric and inside the loosened cups. He rubbed his thumbs over her nipples which were stiffly erect, and her bra floated down her arms. She shivered as the night breeze brushed her heated skin.


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Revenge Can Be Sweet . . . AND Sexy – R is for Revenge from The ABCs of Erotica by Malia Mallory #SixSunday

Today for Six Sentence Sunday, I’d like to share with you an excerpt from The ABCs of Erotica – R is for Revenge, including the new cover!

R is for Revenge

Shapely Grace is Michael’s assistant and his new lover. Michael asks Grace if she would like to get back at Victoria for treating Grace so badly when she worked for her. Of course the answer is yes, but what could Michael possibly have in mind? As she slips into a closet to watch, Grace is thrilled to see what unfolds.

Victoria really wants to be controlled and Michael knows her secret. With that in mind, Michael and Grace exact their revenge on Victoria. And their revenge is sweet!

Notice: This book is fantasy fiction. It contains explicit depictions of sexual acts including light BDSM elements, psychological conditioning, oral sex, sexual intercourse, spanking, bondage, paddling, voyeurism and masturbation. It is intended for mature audiences only (18+).


Michael reached out his index finger and traced the edge of the scalloped lace then retrieved the scarf. He tossed one end up over an exposed ceiling beam and pulled the ends even.

He gave Victoria a questioning look. “Well?”

Her face was flushed, and her eyes bright. She simply nodded.


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#SixSunday – It’s Christmas in July with an Excerpt from Santa’s Backdoor Baby

Hi Readers! It’s time once again for Six Sentence Sunday. We’re celebrating Christmas in July today! For your reading pleasure, I’m presenting a selection from my holiday novella, Santa’s Backdoor Baby.

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“Hey, you must be Holly, right?” He had a nice deep voice that made her shiver. Damn, did she have a thing for Santa? Maybe he’d let her sit on his lap. She laughed to herself. She was going to get put on the naughty list.


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Top 5 Tips for Shooting Stars Sex-Malia Mallory Invites You to Get Cocked, Loaded and Blasted Away with a Bloghop

Welcome wonderful blog hoppers!

It’s time for the Cocked & Loaded, Shootin’ Stars & Blasting Giveaway Hop.

Thank you to our wonderful hosts Ronda from Queentutt’s World of Escapism and Nikki from Close Encounters with the Night Kind. Prizes include TWO Kindle Fires.

One lucky commenter on my blog will win a $5 Amazon Gift Card. All commenters will receive a free ebook! Don’t forget to leave your email.

For your reading enjoyment, I’m sharing an excerpt from my newest release, Mia’s Cop Craving 2- Double Teamed. Keep reading below!

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Top 5 Tips for Shooting Stars Sex

1. Honesty – Be honest with your partner. Don’t fake an orgasm. Help your partner by letting him (or her!) know what you like.

2. Expectations – Have high but realistic expectations. Not every sexual encounter ends with an explosive orgasm. That doesn’t mean it wasn’t enjoyable.

3. Verbalize – Talk to your partner. What worked for you last week might not today. Your mood might be different. Your level of arousal might be higher or lower. Maybe today your body wants a more relaxed encounter. In the alternate, maybe you want something a bit stronger.

4. Experiment – Have an open mind. Don’t expect your partner to be like one you’ve had before. Every person is different. However, use what you’ve learned and add to it.

5. Grooming – Let’s not forget this. Sure, sometimes the mood strikes when you’re hot and sweaty. But usually, it is great to be neat and clean. No one expects model perfection (we know not even models looks like that), but do your best and your partner is likely to appreciate the effort.

What is your tip for sizzling sex?


Excerpt from Mia’s Cop Craving 2 – Double Teamed

Mia opened the door and paused.

Rogan was so male. He filled the doorway and she swallowed hard as her arousal sparked again. He leaned forward into her, stealing a kiss.

Mia’s lips melted against his. “I’ve been waiting for you.”

He captured her lips again and stepped inside. “I know. I’ve been thinking about this all day.”

“Well, actually, I didn’t wait.” Mia’s face pinkened with a blush of embarrassment.

Rogan flashed a smile. “Is that so?”

“I wanted to…but I was sitting here…thinking about you. I took the liberty of starting…sort of…maybe without you.” A worried look flashed across her face.

“Ah, now I must insist you tell me all about it. Perhaps we should even re-create it so I get the full picture.”

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